We’ve all heard the stories of a loving couple wanting to grow their family, but no matter how hard they try, they can’t fall pregnant. Out of a sense of hopelessness they “give up” and that’s when the “miracle” happens, they fall pregnant. In these cases, I’d wager, that it was more of a psychological block rather than a physical inability to fall pregnant. Our emotions and mental processes have a huge impact on our physical bodies.
It's the same for a baseball player that hasn’t been able to hit a homerun. The more stress they put on themselves to perform, the less likely they are to hit that homerun. The moment they let go of the need to hit that homerun, the more likely they would be of hitting it.
It's not magic, it’s not a miracle, it’s a shift in energy that causes us to let go of the “how” and be ok with whatever happens.
Our desire to achieve or perform or deliver can become a heavy burden and this in turn creates the energetic blocks which stops us from achieving or reaching our desired outcome.
Frustration, fears, and anxiety is often be the reasons that it’s not working out. So, whether you are a CEO of a company, a celebrity, a sport star, or a single mom trying to find a new partner, the principles of the mind apply to everyone. Too much trying is a way of FORCING and forcing isn’t a state of flow. It’s the opposite.
If you find yourself in a position of not “getting what you want”, ask yourself some of these questions.
Where in my life am I FORCING things?
Where am I out of the flow state?
Would I be ok if this never happened for me?
What’s the worst that can happen?
Does life continue without it?
The truth is that when you let go of the pressure of getting it, you allow for flow and ease. Test it!
But here’s a little caution. When you let go of it to see what would happen, be sure not to block the energy with your expectation of it working out. EXPECTATION is another big way we block things from coming to us.
When you let go of the outcome, it will manifest effortlessly.
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